Thursday, April 4, 2024

D - Deaths



All deaths are sad - but some make no sense and leave us wondering, the proverbial "why?" 



April 1932



Throughout history, every family has experienced tragedies that are difficult to fathom in today's world. Michael Hasenstab was my maternal great-grandfather until DNA disproved that family branch. However, he was my mother's grandfather, and his story still intrigues me. It's sad to think that he spent years raising his two young children after his beloved wife, Philomena, passed away due to childbirth complications. It's also believed that he had been ill. In 1922, records show that he was residing at St. Elizabeth Hospital in Dayton, Ohio.

It is interesting to note, in 1958 that his only son, shot himself at the age of 62. 







Scott County News, Fri. 15 Sept. 1933 - 

Ulysses Lewallen aged about 50, residing about three miles east of Glen Mary, was shot to death by his son, Hurstle, last Tuesday night just after dusk. According to reports LEWALLEN and his son had been working in the hay field that day and at about dusk the father had sent his son to the house after a lantern with which to complete some work. LEWALLEN claims that his father reprimanded him for not getting the lantern as quickly as was thought he should and after some difficulty between father and son young Lewallen claims that his father came at him with a pitchfork and he shot in self-defense. The father, according to information, was shot six times and died instantly. Young Lewallen, who was 19-20 was given a preliminary hearing before Squire H. O. Lewallen and bound over to court under a $5000 bond. The funeral was held Wednesday with interment in the family cemetery. A large crowd attended the burial of Mr. LEWALLEN, who was well known in the county and who has a large number of relatives residing in Scott County.

It was later determined to be self-defense. 


His son, Hurst as a young boy 

TEC5 Hurst Lewallen was Killed In Action, During WW II, While Fighting In Europe. 

He fell on the field of Battle while Fighting for Freedom. (Battle of the Bulge) 

WWII SERVED WITH THE 329TH INFANTRY REGIMENT
83RD INFANTRY DIVISION.
HE WAS KILLED ON 01-10-1945
NEAR PETITE LANGLIER, BELGIUM.



My Grandma's older brother - Claude McCart

I've been holding onto this photo ever since my parents passed away. I always thought he was handsome and grew attached to him, but I didn't know much else about him. It turns out that his name was Claude and he worked at the Leavenworth Prison in Kansas as a Provost Guard. Prior to that, he served in the US Army during WWI. Unfortunately, his newly wedded wife, who was only 20 years old, filed for divorce just a day before he was killed. They hadn't been married for very long. There was some dispute over who would receive his pension, and from what I could gather, his wife Dolly was denied, and his mother (my Great-Grandmother) ended up receiving his pension instead.

No one in the family ever talked about this man or any of the events related to him. Back then, it was the mentality that you "suck it up" and move on, which can be fine too, but no one talked about it to the later generations. I believe this is what set off my Great-Grandmother, Sallie. This is just a guess, but after having twins (my grandmother), her husband accused her of being with another man - and she ran off with the other man whom she thought was the father of the twins. It turns out he was not, and her husband was the father of the babies. This added to the confusion for future generations to figure out and thank God for DNA. My Great-Grandfather took off - leaving a large family, and was never heard from again. I am, at this time, unable to find death records or anything. It's like he just dropped off the face of the earth.


Meet Charles Brown. He married my Great-Grand Aunt in 1908. From what I have heard, they were very much in love. Then he contracted Typhoid Fever and died at age 28. My aunt never remarried and lived in the same house by the railroad tracks till she died at age 99.





7 comments:

  1. Okay, I just discovered this blog and posts. Very interesting! You are unearthing a lot of information! Wow! So much sorrow back then. Thank you for sharing your story. I kind of lost interest after I discovered my paternal grandmother's birth parents and went about as far as I could. I need to do some work on my maternal grandparents' families. I just seem to have lost my drive. But you are inspiring me to do more research...no telling what I might discover!

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  2. People certainly led interesting lives that often led to interesting deaths back in the day! My great, great grandfather was killed on a wagon train while the family was moving back home after Missouri's Order 11 forced them to leave their home during the Civil War. He was allegedly accidentally shot by a man cleaning his gun. I also had a great uncle who was found in the Missouri River and may have been a victim of the Kansas City political boss Tom Pendergast back in the early 1930s.

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  3. There is so much sadness here, and so much to wonder about. If only we could turn back the clock for just a little while and ask the questions.
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  4. You're doing a great job of recording family stories

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  5. A tangled web that you have done well to sort out...

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  6. So many interesting stories. I think some of these stories can only be told when people who knew the protagonists have also died and won't get upset. Thank goodness for newspapers to keep those stories for us and that the newspapers are digitised allowing us to find those stories again.

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  7. This is so interesting and l9ve seeing the pics. I enjoy reading about your relatives, the good, the bad and the ugly. We all have them. The good looking man from WW1 is the man that left? I wonder if he left to another country? I know I have a lot of German in me but it shows so differently on ancestry.com but that's because so few of my mom's relatives are on it

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